JohnMitchell 16 #26 May 12, 2009 Quote Lol! Yeah, 'cos most normal marriages do just fine Point well taken.Lot of reasons marriages fail. For some people, it's tough enough without adding more reasons to bust up. A lot of people stay married, though. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #27 May 12, 2009 Quote Quote Lol! Yeah, 'cos most normal marriages do just fine Define "normal" for us.My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladydyver 0 #28 May 12, 2009 there is a lot of variation on the response you will get. It is very dependant on the couple and what they want. there are people out there who will have extra marital encounters and have their counterpart in on the action and knowledgable....there are others who will have action and there counterparts will be oblivious....there are those that will stay monogamous.....it is going to be dependant on the individuals in the relationship to determine what will happen....and the type of relationship that they have with one another. Other factors include cultural, religious and family values that will play in the mix. In the end I don't think that you will find that most people sway one way or another and that it is individual and dependant on the relationships that are established as well as the trust that is felt among one another.DPH # 2 "I am not sure what you are suppose to do with that, but I don't think it is suppose to flop around like that." ~Skootz~ I have a strong regard for the rules.......doc! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #29 May 12, 2009 Quotet.. most people sway one way or another ... THIS man only sways one way.My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amazon 7 #30 May 12, 2009 QuoteQuotet.. most people sway one way or another ... THIS man only sways one way. How the fuck are we supposed to get good video then... sheesh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
windcatcher 0 #31 May 12, 2009 When you get married, you are committing yourself to that ONE person for the rest of your life. Introducing a third person into your relationship is asking for all kinds of problems. If one person has a higher sex drive than the other, oh well; that doesn't give them license to cheat. There is more to life than having sex. Mother to the cutest little thing in the world... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LisaH 0 #32 May 12, 2009 There is more to life than having sex. ______________________________ Bite your tongue. Be yourself! MooOOooOoo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnnyD 0 #33 May 12, 2009 QuoteWhen you get married, you are committing yourself to that ONE person for the rest of your life. Or until you get divorced, whichever comes first. If both parties agree, who cares? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
windcatcher 0 #34 May 12, 2009 Having a "who cares" attitude is exactly the problem. We can't just go around doing whatevertheheck we want without facing consequences. And I'm gonna shut my mouth ( or quit typing) before I send this to SC. Mother to the cutest little thing in the world... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
theonlyski 6 #35 May 12, 2009 Quote Introducing a third person into your relationship is asking for all kinds of problems. What about a 4th?"I may be a dirty pirate hooker...but I'm not about to go stand on the corner." iluvtofly DPH -7, TDS 578, Muff 5153, SCR 14890 I'm an asshole, and I approve this message Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnnyD 0 #36 May 12, 2009 QuoteHaving a "who cares" attitude is exactly the problem. We can't just go around doing whatevertheheck we want without facing consequences. ??? I agree that you can't go around doing whatevertheheck. Both partners agree, so there is no problem. If one disagreed, huge problem. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
windcatcher 0 #37 May 12, 2009 You're probably not too familiar with most of my posts huh?Most of what I'm talking about has to do with morals and rejecting the idea of "what's right for me personally is right." Mother to the cutest little thing in the world... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Darius11 12 #38 May 12, 2009 A relationship can be anything two or more consenting adults agree too. As long as there is honesty (which is much easier said then done) there should not be a problem. Personally I know it’s not for me because the thought of another man with my woman is excruciating, I think sex is best when its one on one with a deep emotional connection between the partners. but thats just me.I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not." - Kurt Cobain Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nigel99 423 #39 May 12, 2009 Quote A relationship can be anything two or more consenting adults agree too. As long as there is honesty (which is much easier said then done) there should not be a problem. Personally I know it’s not for me because the thought of another man with my woman is excruciating, I think sex is best when its one on one with a deep emotional connection between the partners. but thats just me. It is something that I have thought about in a fair amount of depth due to my fathers viewpoints and I know that I could go anywhere I want to get an opinion that supports either position (my dad = open marriage, my mom whose view was that it was fine while there was loads of cash around, and then a resounding hell no get your ass out the door), or my wife where it is simply no not ever. What I find most interesting are the people that are happy to have fuck buddies etc, and yet still see this as morally wrong.Experienced jumper - someone who has made mistakes more often than I have and lived. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livendive 8 #40 May 12, 2009 I don't really care what other (consenting) people choose to do, but it's not something I'd be interested in. Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Broke 0 #41 May 12, 2009 Quote Having a "who cares" attitude is exactly the problem. We can't just go around doing whatevertheheck we want without facing consequences. And I'm gonna shut my mouth ( or quit typing) before I send this to SC. I think that today people don't take marriage as seriously as they once did. The most painful part is when one person is seriously devoted to the other, and lets just say the other is not as devoted. I think some people see it as dating plus. However if that is your view then you shouldn't get married.Divot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #42 May 13, 2009 QuoteWhat I find most interesting are the people that are happy to have fuck buddies etc, and yet still see this as morally wrong. I'm not married. If I had a fuck buddy, that's not committed, that's a friend with benefits. This thread is about extra-marital sex, not being single and having fun.Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
